Why womt someone show up on xbox friends list

WHY WOMT SOMEONE SHOW UP ON XBOX FRIENDS LIST MODS

Does the SERVER-IP/PORT thing work if the server has a password on it, or would I have to remove the password in order for my friends to join? (Then again, that may not even be an issue if nobody can find it anyways).

WHY WOMT SOMEONE SHOW UP ON XBOX FRIENDS LIST MODS

Make sure no mods are running on the server neither since epic users cannot use mods as of right now. It should hopefully connect you to the server. Open (SERVER-IP/PORT HERE) without the brackets of course and hit enter.

another way around it is to load a singleplayer world and open the console (tab) and enter the command down below There's easier ways around it on steam but sadly not on Epic. Originally posted by Jameegi:The server list in general is a pain to use when it has to load 60k+ servers in one big list (which never goes well half of the time).

I've been googling for days and haven't found anything. Sorry if this post has been really repetitive, I'm just trying to figure out what's wrong. It looks like its showing thousands of servers just fine on the epic games lists, so I'm just dumbfounded as to why mine specifically aren't showing. It's specifically the epic version where we can't see any of the servers. What's frustrating is that steam works just fine, steam users can find the servers through adding to favorites or even just in the in-game server list. I'm not sure exactly what's wrong since epic players can join the server through the 'open IP:PORT' method in the console. If any of you are server hosts, have you got your servers open to epic and steam successfully? And if so, can you actually find your server on the Epic versions server list? When I enabled it a few days ago on some of our servers it was showing up in the server list for a bit, but just recently it stopped showing up. So I've got an issue that I've been struggling with for a few days.

Why womt someone show up on xbox friends list